Something I read online this week really got me thinking.
A lady I follow on facebook was talking about the fact that some people don't appreciate hearing how positive she is all the time and she often receives negative comments from people (including so-called friends) that it can't always be rainbows and butterflies and that she can't possibly be happy all the time.
This really struck a cord with me because it's something I feel very strongly about. Life isn't always going to turn out according to plan and there will be many bumps in the road and challenges along the way. I've spoken about it before in saying that it's how you deal with the tough times that determines how happy you will be.
Personally, I feel that if something isn't going right in your life or there is something that's getting you down, it's not going to make the situation any better or easier to handle by complaining about it to other people. Don't get me wrong, there are times that I would love to complain about something or have a whinge, but that's not going to solve anything and all that does is bring the other people down that you are complaining to.
No matter what mood I'm in or what's going on in my personal life, I always walk around with a smile on my face, and when people ask how I am I always answer in a positive and happy way.
There would be nothing worse than someone saying to me 'Hi, how's it going?' and then me unloading a whole heap of negativity onto their day.
And that doesn't mean that you can't turn to your friends or family for support in hard times, but if you can learn to respond with positivity, energy and a smile you will feel so much better, and the people you are talking with will feed off that positive energy.
Always try to turn the negatives into positives, learn from the tough times and spread happiness wherever you go!
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| Day 44 - 'We got a nice big payrise at work today! Now that is definitely something that makes me happy.' Who doesn't love a payrise! |







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