I once read somewhere, 'If you don't like your
job, quit!' It sounds simple enough, but is it really that easy?
Last year I found myself enjoying my job less and less. Getting in my
car at the same time every day, driving through traffic to then sit in the same
office for 8 hours doing the same work day in day out. I was forever getting in
trouble for playing on my phone or being on the internet (always looking up
something fun to do or somewhere exciting to go), and 4 weeks annual leave just
wasn't cutting it.
But I'd been doing the same job for 6 years, how could I do
anything else, and what would I do?
I'd always wanted to travel and see
as much of the world as possible, and finally after almost 5 years Scotty felt
the same. Up until then he hadn't had much of a desire to travel and all of our
trips over the past 5 years had been between Australia and New Zealand to visit
family. Don't get me wrong, family is one of the most important things in life,
but it's trying to find the right balance between spending time with family and
travelling to other parts of the world to fulfil my dream to travel.
When a
position came up at Clontarf we thought it was too good to be true. Starting
work at 3pm each day, having 3 day weekends and getting 13 weeks annual
leave, this was like a dream come true. But then came all the questions... How
will I go supervising teenage students, will I be a good mentor, how will I
cope when they don't listen to my instructions?
Scotty was sure I would do a
great job and worked hard to convince me of the same. (The fact that he wouldn't need to drive into Leederville every day to meet me for lunch anymore was a draw card I'm sure!) Surrounding yourself with
positive people that encourage you to take on new challenges helps when faced
with big decisions. I was lucky to have the support of my husband and the
encouragement from family and friends that it would be a fantastic opportunity
for us. You should never try and make big decisions on your own, ask people
that are close to you for their opinion and advice and hopefully the decision
won't seem as overwhelming.
The next big decision we had to make was about where
we would live. They offered us an apartment at Clontarf as part of our package
as boarding supervisors. But we'd just spent the last 18 months buying
furniture and decorating our house, what would we do with all our stuff? After
a lot of discussion and weighing up the pros and cons we decided to take the
leap, sell all our furniture and a lot of our belongings and move into the one
bedroom apartment. We knew it was going to be a big move and a big adjustment,
but in the long run we'd be so much better off. Sometimes it means doing things
that might be out of your comfort zone to better your situation, even if they
do seem scary and overwhelming at the time.
So, it was a new year and a whole
new beginning. We sold all our furniture and gave lots of my kitchen stuff to a
family friend who was moving out of home for the first time. It was nice to be
able to help someone out by giving her things we didn't need anymore. We have
five meals a week at work so didn't really need any cooking/kitchen things, and
needed to minimise the amount of things we were going to take to the apartment.
It felt liberating downsizing all of our belongings and clearing out so many
material things we just didn't need. It gave us a sense of freedom knowing that
we weren't tied down with a house full of furniture, and now means that we're in
a better position to head overseas when the time is right.
The best advice I can
give is that if you're in a job that you don't like or that doesn't suit your
lifestyle anymore, then see what else is out there. And try not to let money be
the deciding factor in what you choose to do. Take a leap, follow your dreams.
We spend so much time each day at work, we need to make sure it's doing
something we love.


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